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<blockquote data-quote="orv design and fab" data-source="post: 574313" data-attributes="member: 9508"><p>Congrats....after a huge ordeal with a foster to apopt...kinda...we had our home study but not foster license. So we became court appointed home for one of my children...the other we had to fight. The child was old enough to have a (bad record)...it was a bunch of bs, nothing but politics and running each other's backs in the system. But we fought and fought</p><p>..half your battle is accomplished tho...termi,ating parental rights is hard to do...we spent 2 years fighting the court system for them to TPR and on a. Random day, the birth parents called me and asked if I wajtednto adopt...I screamed YES, they said they would sign for us to adopt...after 2 years...almost every month in court and fighting foster companies for mistreating my soon to be son...it losses you off for some low life to mistreat your child(in your mind but not legally) and get a fat pay check out of it...but they do and you have to do what's right. Sorry to ramble...it is a huge burden on this country...there is 500,000 children in foster care and the 5 homes out of the 7 i have seen my child in were trash and I wouldn't let them hold my dog. This was while I was fighting for placement</p><p></p><p></p><p>Word from going through this is...</p><p></p><p>Document everything...get a hard copy of every document you sign.</p><p></p><p>The court should get you a lawyer, unsure how this is obtained but we had a good relationship with the DSS lawyer and kept open communication...</p><p></p><p>Stay quiet until necessary(safety of child is threatened) then break down the doors...call lawyer, call your DSS agent, call DA of that court when needed. That's who you need to speak on court days as well. They can tell you how fast this can go and what needs to happen every court date. </p><p></p><p>You need to know your rights as a home placment. Counseling for your family. As the child grows. And educate yourself and your wife...keep your wife as your confidante. Grow together in this not apart. It is very easy to stress and get irritated,with each other because you handle stress differently, but pull together. Got to every class DSS has ...classes like</p><p>Caring for children who have experienced trauma, </p><p>Parenting a child with adhd</p><p>Behavioral health</p><p>Correcting a child</p><p>And many others</p><p>I can't remember them all and these might be wrong... But they will give you some understanding of what the child has gone through and help them to grow. Many times children who have gone through trauma are delayed in many areas, but don't worry they very well might catch up as time goes on. Pray for your child and show them the hope that they can have in Christ and what a loving thriving home looks like. God bless, if you need anything give me a shout on here, sorry about the ramblings.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="orv design and fab, post: 574313, member: 9508"] Congrats....after a huge ordeal with a foster to apopt...kinda...we had our home study but not foster license. So we became court appointed home for one of my children...the other we had to fight. The child was old enough to have a (bad record)...it was a bunch of bs, nothing but politics and running each other's backs in the system. But we fought and fought ..half your battle is accomplished tho...termi,ating parental rights is hard to do...we spent 2 years fighting the court system for them to TPR and on a. Random day, the birth parents called me and asked if I wajtednto adopt...I screamed YES, they said they would sign for us to adopt...after 2 years...almost every month in court and fighting foster companies for mistreating my soon to be son...it losses you off for some low life to mistreat your child(in your mind but not legally) and get a fat pay check out of it...but they do and you have to do what's right. Sorry to ramble...it is a huge burden on this country...there is 500,000 children in foster care and the 5 homes out of the 7 i have seen my child in were trash and I wouldn't let them hold my dog. This was while I was fighting for placement Word from going through this is... Document everything...get a hard copy of every document you sign. The court should get you a lawyer, unsure how this is obtained but we had a good relationship with the DSS lawyer and kept open communication... Stay quiet until necessary(safety of child is threatened) then break down the doors...call lawyer, call your DSS agent, call DA of that court when needed. That's who you need to speak on court days as well. They can tell you how fast this can go and what needs to happen every court date. You need to know your rights as a home placment. Counseling for your family. As the child grows. And educate yourself and your wife...keep your wife as your confidante. Grow together in this not apart. It is very easy to stress and get irritated,with each other because you handle stress differently, but pull together. Got to every class DSS has ...classes like Caring for children who have experienced trauma, Parenting a child with adhd Behavioral health Correcting a child And many others I can't remember them all and these might be wrong... But they will give you some understanding of what the child has gone through and help them to grow. Many times children who have gone through trauma are delayed in many areas, but don't worry they very well might catch up as time goes on. Pray for your child and show them the hope that they can have in Christ and what a loving thriving home looks like. God bless, if you need anything give me a shout on here, sorry about the ramblings. [/QUOTE]
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