I deleted the muffler today, kept the cat.
I love the new sound. Its really not any louder in the cab. Its a different, lower tone but I wouldn't say any louder inside. The muffler does almost nothing in terms of quieting the truck down it turns out. Now the truck just sounds "throatier."
It turns out that I'm really glad I kept the cat. After I finished the muffler job my buddy Barton (screen name The-Boss) called and asked me what I did. I knew he had a truck like mine but hadn't ever thought about what he had in terms of exhaust. Turns out he is straight pipe all the way so I went over to his house to give it a listen. He agrees, that **** is obnoxious. He got the truck that way and he plans to put a Donaldson muffler on it to quiet it down. I definitely would not have enjoyed that on my truck. I would say the cat is doing 75% of the "muffling" in stock form.
I'm going to drive the truck for the next few days, see if it starts to get on my nerves. So far super-pleased though.