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What makes you a "Horrible" dad???
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<blockquote data-quote="CheapJ7" data-source="post: 172630" data-attributes="member: 68"><p>Thats the Crazy part, I'm asking myself that as well... I don't know the answer because I never blew off or broke curfew, And I don't know why I didn't. It was ok for me to call if I was going to be late, but why the hell did I only use that for legitimate reasons. My parents went with more of the "you let me down" approach than the screaming mad beat you with a switch dammit mode. That always killed me.</p><p>If I had to put a finger on it, I would say that all the positive reinforcement, praise, and "good jobs /We're so proud of you" weighed so heavy with me that I never wanted to dissapoint them. </p><p></p><p> I would say focus on the positives, set clear expectations and punishments (taking away priveledges(( but that is tricky, because you don't want to not let them go to a big event then they rebel))) and come to a mutual understaning that the more trust is earned, the more trust will be given. Again, back to a give and take Moderation system.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CheapJ7, post: 172630, member: 68"] Thats the Crazy part, I'm asking myself that as well... I don't know the answer because I never blew off or broke curfew, And I don't know why I didn't. It was ok for me to call if I was going to be late, but why the hell did I only use that for legitimate reasons. My parents went with more of the "you let me down" approach than the screaming mad beat you with a switch dammit mode. That always killed me. If I had to put a finger on it, I would say that all the positive reinforcement, praise, and "good jobs /We're so proud of you" weighed so heavy with me that I never wanted to dissapoint them. I would say focus on the positives, set clear expectations and punishments (taking away priveledges(( but that is tricky, because you don't want to not let them go to a big event then they rebel))) and come to a mutual understaning that the more trust is earned, the more trust will be given. Again, back to a give and take Moderation system. [/QUOTE]
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