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The wife an I decided to go seperate ways and she took my daughter with. I miss my daughter more than anything right now. I held Kyla for about an hour before she left. I think I will be dehydrated by the end of the night.:booo:
 

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Damn Brian. I don't know what to say... :booo:

Let us know if you need anything, we're here for ya man.
 
Sorry to hear that Brian. I do hope there is a way to work things out. Wish you the best.
 
Life always has pitfalls. Courage is the ability to climb out. Enthusiasm is the desire to climb out. Look into yourself Luke, and find it you shall.
 
Hopefully you guys can work out a plan that works for both of you, so that you can still be a part of your daughter's life. IMO, that's the important part. You and your (ex)wife might not get along, but you should still be able to cooperate so you can be a father to your baby girl.

Good luck man. I wish I could say I know what you're going through, but I can't. I'm sorry nonetheless.
 
Sorry to hear that Brian. I don't know you but have a lot of friends in that position, really sucks. Will be praying for you guys.


Owen:hi:
 
I'm sorry to hear that Brian. :booo: Maybe some time apart will prove the theory that absence makes the heart grow fonder and there's still a chance things can be worked out.
 
Sorry to hear that Brian. I know how it feel's, hurts like a SOB. BTDT X1000000, Dont give up on wheeling. Best thing I have learned from experience is to keep yourself busy, that way you dont think about it. I'm having a 4th of July party at my house, wheeling bud's hanging out. Your more than welcome to come if you want. PM me if you need directions. This Sunday I'm going wheeling/ Test tune ****. Let me know if you wanna come.
 
np205 said:
Sorry to hear that Brian. I don't know you but have a lot of friends in that position, really sucks. Will be praying for you guys.


Owen:hi:
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Pretty much my thoughts exactly. There have been way too many people going through way too much crap lately...

Eric
 
Im sorry to hear that Brian.....Hope you can work out a way so you can still see your daughter on a regular frequent basis. i'll keep you in my prayers
 
terribly sorry to hear about your situation. seems like we are all going through something that challenges us to be stronger in the face of adversity. the one bit of advice I can lend is surround yourself with your friends, it helps!
 
anntyper said:
terribly sorry to hear about your situation. seems like we are all going through something that challenges us to be stronger in the face of adversity. the one bit of advice I can lend is surround yourself with your friends, it helps!
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Well right now I am drinking a bud light and listening to Chris Cagles song Miss me baby.

Thanks for all the support guy. I really need it right now to keep me sane. This is starting to seem like the hardest obsticle life has thrown at me.
 
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You know what Brian...I'm not sorry they left you.

You have no ****ty diapers to change, no wife to nag, you can eat, drink, and **** whatever you want now.

It's called freedom, enjoy it :beer:
 
Well I still have something going good for me and that is the new contract that I picked up in bellevue and I will be making great money. Now the only thing i can spend money on is to buy stuff for my little girl and my 4 runner. Life might turn out alright. Just have to live life one day at a time.
 
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Sorry to here that brian....give her some time, she'll come back.
Why don't you come down to donner for the rock crawl this weekend? :beer:
 
Keep your head up Brian, things will work out. Just be there for that little girl like you are doing. If you need to chat, you know where to find me.
 
i dont know ya, but i can relate.. im going thru a divorce as well i have 2 boys that were/are my life...

what i found worked for me to get me thru the first couple weeks... get in touch with friends you havent seen in a while, for me i also stayed away from the drink.. to easy to spiral into depresion... stay active.. physicly and mentaly... that and i talked to my doc... got on anti depresents for about 2 weeks to get me thru the tough time... and most important.. learn to look for the positive in EVERY THING.

its been a month now.. im happyer than i think ive been in almost 5 years..
 
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i also stayed away from the drink.. to easy to spiral into depresion.
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As much as I like drinking, I really think this is good advice. Don't go off the deep end with the drinking... get back in touch with some friends you haven't seen in a while. Have a few drinks with them if that's what the agenda is, but don't go crazy... it doesn't help and you'll just end up kicking yourself later if you drink too much and get all crazy.
 
Been there, done that. I kept myself busy and tried to not think about my ex. I spent every minute I could with my kids. I think it helped the kids that I was able to come over to her place in the evenings and help put them to bed.

Fast forward a few months, and my ex had started drinking alot, doing drugs, etc. It was at that point I decided to fight. It took 2 years and about $40k, but I got custody of my kids. Best $40k I ever spent. :redneck:

My wife and I are foster parents. About 7mos ago we were asked to come down to UW Medical center and visit with a lil boy who's mother had abandoned him (she was 15.) We spent every waking moment taking care of him. He had RSV really bad and almost died twice. Spent many a sleepless night at Childrens Hospital with him. We were told by the social workers that we would be able to adopt him. We had our hearts set on it. Then, just after he is 6mos old, we get a phone call, saying they will be there in an hour to pick him up. :WTF:

They almost had to pry him out of my arms. It was like they were taking my own son.
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We were told by the social workers that we would be able to adopt him. We had our hearts set on it. Then, just after he is 6mos old, we get a phone call, saying they will be there in an hour to pick him up.
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:wtf: I hope they had a gawd damn good reason...
 

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