Sorry for your loss. How's your son doing? Did he recovery well and how is he taking it?
Sorry for your loss. How's your son doing? Did he recovery well and how is he taking it?
It was an unfortunate event for sure but honestly I stopped giving a damn at around word 362 of that long winded meandering diatribe.
A simple "sometimes bad **** happens to good people" would have summed it up nicely.
You should have read it, very well written :awesomework:
I tried. You know that saying that the older we get the better we were? That effect is easily 10 fold when someone dies. You never hear "Hey that guy was an asshole, good riddance to bad rubbish!" at a funeral, it's always he was such a great guy, perfect father and a hero to puppies everywhere blah blah.
I can't say anything good or bad about the deceased but all the posthumous niceties are predictable. It was an unfortunate event the end.
But your talkin about a persons lifetime vs. one incedent that led to an unfortunate end.
When somebody dies whats said is usually based off there whole life time--and yes its typically "good" stuff but I have also heard the negative at a couple too.
Jesus Christ dude, it's his wife! Back the **** down, seriously.I tried. You know that saying that the older we get the better we were? That effect is easily 10 fold when someone dies. You never hear "Hey that guy was an asshole, good riddance to bad rubbish!" at a funeral, it's always he was such a great guy, perfect father and a hero to puppies everywhere blah blah.
I can't say anything good or bad about the deceased but all the posthumous niceties are predictable. It was an unfortunate event the end.
Jesus Christ dude, it's his wife! Back the **** down, seriously.
He's worse than I am :lol:No **** huh? Even I know to stay outta this one.
Jesus Christ dude, it's his wife! Back the **** down, seriously.
Back down from what? I'm not saying anything bad about the guy or her or anyone for that matter. :eeek:
Your posts are you. We wouldn't expect any better.
And as a SOBER person (he VERY rarely drank - probably 3 drinks in the last year - and he sure as heck wasn't going to drink some cheap COORS LIGHT garbage - that's all y'alls trash - the tox showed no drugs anyway)
Did the toxicology report show that he had alcohol in his bloodstream?
Come on man, just let it be. :cool:
And being a decent person isn't acceptable anymore :rolleyes:
Maybe whoever brought this thread back from the dead should of thought of all this **** before posting.
It's the internet, and doing your laundry in public is never a good idea.
I agree, but I want you guys to put yourself in her shoes for sec. Imagine you wife didn't come home from the store one day. Killed in a car accident. How would you feel?
I don't know first hand, but I do know this feeling as being a good friend to a person it did happen and it hurt me like a MF'er. In fact it still upsets me.
Not accepting the fact that the world isn't full of people just like you isn't.
Tolerance works both ways.
Right and wrong
Good and evil
Can't have one without the other.
edit...forgot one:
***** ass do-gooder and asshole
If you really want to go through life with a stick up your ass (or a flag pole), that's fine, it's your choice, I could care less. Just watch out for those splinters, they tingle.
It's the internet, and doing your laundry in public is never a good idea.
Thank you all for your positive contributions to my explanation and theory about what happened.I agree, but I want you guys to put yourself in her shoes for sec. Imagine you wife didn't come home from the store one day. Killed in a car accident. How would you feel?
I don't know first hand, but I do know this feeling as being a good friend to a person it did happen and it hurt me like a MF'er. In fact it still upsets me.
Thank you all for your positive contributions to my explanation and theory about what happened.
In answer to additional questions:
~Both my sons are in perfect health; mentally? In therapy. Losing their daddy is always going to be with them - no dad to put the hammer down, no dad to play sports with, no dad to guide them into manhood. A mom is just different.
~Last year was the worst - 7 deaths in our family, etc. - I can't believe I'm handling it as well as I have. Still cry alot. I miss my husband very much.
~I don't consider it dirty laundry. I have (relatively) nothing to hide. haha
~I feel upset his friend didn't call me right away. But I don't blame him. The result would have been the same. You're right; he probably feels crappy about it. I talk to him, but he hasn't really expressed his feelings to me.
~I want to reiterate: John did have enough supplies in the truck to survive awhile. I believe he didn't have the opportunity to use them as he probably suffered a concussion. He was dressed warmly, too, contrary to reports.
~I also reiterate: John was a sober person - rarely drank. The toxicology report showed no drugs or alcohol in his system.
And I am sorry for your loss. But you sure are a strong person to not only share the story but I feel allot of positiveness from you by your words...
Dr. Crash needs his own TV show :redneck:
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